Sweet and Spicy female looking for a lover/friend

Im an independent woman who know how to work when it is time to get to business but still remembers how to play. I have a big heart and enjoy the company of others. My kindness is often mistaken for weakness, which is a big mistake. I have never had any problems holding my own. I just like to share my hapiness. Looking For: Im looking for a man who is able to give the same thing that he is asking for. In other words I want him to look at me as his equal. He would have to treat me as his woman without ever forgeting that Im also his friend.