I've recently come out of a relationship and while not looking to jump right back into one, I am willing to meet or talk with people on Soul Singles.Com At the same time I've chosen to concentrate on me. This means that I'm getting back into shape, organizing my goals and values and learning to love myself again and take care of what is important to me. Searching for that one man to spend my time with will take a bit of a backseat while this gets done. My eyes will still be open but he will have to find me and make himself known. What can i say about myself? I'm open-minded, fun, charasmatic and down to earth. I enjoy theatre, MUSIC, films, mature discussions,socializing, reading, working with youth and children. I also like travelling, spontaneous trips, live shows and most of writing