Looking for my best friend who will become my partner

I am a warm down to earth person with a sincere heart I love to be positive yet real and I like to surround myself with people that are supportive and encouraging. I am a mother of 3 but they all grown up now 24,22 and 17 years old. I am a working professional in social care which I find challenging yet rewarding. I want to experience meeting a wonderful black man that is on the same wave length as myself, knows what it is to work hard yet understand that life is too short not to live. I also love singing and I have been performing off and on for many years so having someone that loves music and going to live performances would be a bonus. I do love God even though I do not go to church as often as I use to, he is still very important in my life.