looking for my Star.

I have a good personality, and I love to laugh, travel and learn new things. I love history and politics and cartoons (lol) I am in school for my M.A. I am looking for someone with a good sense a humor and who has patience and will support me in all that I do. He needs to be open minded and strong willed. I need some that will not be afraid to tell me no!and not just go with the flow. I want a man who will "learn me" before wanted to sleep with me. I thing its important to enjoy one another outside of the bedroom.