Me, ambitious, smart, independent-minded who values integrity (do what you say, say what you do...if you can't do it, don't say it!). Looking for a charming man who shares same values. Looking For: My ideal match should be charming, well-groomed and well-mannered. He should know how to treat a woman with respect. I look to him for strength and security, as well as someone to inspire me to be the best woman that I can be!