Complicated but simple looking for someone to change my life

I'm the mother of a wonderful spectacular handsome little boy that gives me the energy and joy to live everyday to the fullest. I say that to say this my son is number one in my life as well as the only one in my life and i'm to a point where it's time for that companion that special person in my life. Im ready to devote my time and energy into someone thats will to do the same. Now, some details about me....lol....I need attention....I thrive off of attention and im not talking about stalker certified attention but the i know you exist i love talking and spending time with you attention. I dont want to feel like im in a relationship alone....I'm a very outgoing caring person...which is good and bad depending on the i associate with but i try to only surround myself with positive motivating people because i put the feels of others before my own so i want people in my life who are willing to do the same when appropriate. I love to have fun and just enjoy the many blessings of life, the simple but meaningful things life offers. I'm looking for that man that can be my sunshine throughout the day and my covers at nite. A man thats not only strong and hard working but pleasant truthful and caring....someone that can make me feel secure but relaxed at the same time. I have goals and dreams and i expect him to have